MY SISTERS — The Girls with a Thousand Voices ( Childhood truama) Part 2

03/12/2025

Part 2 — The Girls Who Disappeared and the Ones Who Came Back

Some girls don't fade —
they vanish.

Piece by piece.
In front of everyone.
And nobody notices until she's too far gone.

People say:

"She changed."
"She became distant."
"She grew cold."

No.
She disappeared because nobody saw her breaking.

She disappeared because the weight was too heavy.
She disappeared because she learned everyone's needs except her own.
She disappeared because silence was safer than honesty.
She disappeared because being strong became a prison, not a choice.

Part 2 is about them
the girls who almost didn't make it back.

Here are seven truths about the ones who vanished and returned:

1. Some girls disappeared because nobody ever asked how they felt — only what they could do.

They were useful, not seen.
Responsible, not protected.
They hid their pain because they learned it didn't matter.

2. Some girls disappeared into perfection — because failure wasn't safe.

Perfect grades.
Perfect behavior.
Perfect silence.

Not strength —
fear.

Today's girls disappear behind perfect photos and curated lives.
Still hiding.
Still hurting.

3. Some girls disappeared because the world told them to be strong, but never taught them how.

Strength without support collapses.
Strength without rest destroys.
Strength without choice is abuse.

She didn't stop showing up out of rebellion.
She stopped because nobody noticed she was drowning.

4. Some girls disappeared under secrets that weren't theirs.

Secrets break girls differently —
they blame themselves faster.
They carry guilt that never belonged to them.

Old hill.
New hill.
Same burden.

5. Some girls disappeared because they became the hero and the healer.

They protected everyone else from chaos.
They calmed storms they didn't create.
They sacrificed themselves to keep others safe.

And nobody ever protected them.

6. Some girls almost didn't make it back.

Quiet self-destruction.
Hidden tears.
Nights of not wanting to wake up.
Rooms where the silence felt too heavy to survive.

Some didn't return.
Some still haven't.
But some fought their way back one breath at a time.

7. And the girls who returned — they came back changed.

Not softer.
Not sweeter.
Not polite.

They came back with boundaries.
They came back with truth.
They came back refusing to play the old role.
They came back to reclaim the voice they buried.

And this time —
they're not giving it back.

Part 2 ends here:

Some girls vanished.
Some survived the dark.
And the ones who came back —
they carry fire in their voice now.

Raymond and Ken